Currents and Futures
|ORDINARY ECSTASY…One of the things that I love about Christopher Alexander’s book, “The Timeless Way of Building” is the pictures. The images he selected, all black and white, illustrate perfectly the thing that he calls “the quality without a name”.
I first read the book over 25 years ago. And now, I’m ready to give that quality a name.
This is a term that came to me when I was in Ladakh, watching a very ordinary peasant woman, Tsering Dolma, working in her fields. (Click on her link to learn more about her…)
We generally associate the term “ecstasy” with peak experiences – usually religious or sexual. That would be a mistake.
What Christopher Alexander shows us in his images, and what many of us can experience in our daily lives, are examples of ecstasy in the everyday, the commonplace.
Ordinary ecstasy is not limited to these examples. It happens in ongoing situations and circumstances, also.
I think back to the lines of women selling vegetables on the main streets, in the Ladakhi towns of Leh and Diskit. The tourists take their pictures, because they encompass the “quality without a name”, a timeless, non-self-referent quality…
Ordinary ecstasy happens when we become One with a purpose greater than our own. That purpose may be exalted or very, very everyday.
When ordinary ecstasy happens, SOMETHING gets triggered. Something that we don’t have a lot of words for, something that, once we have it, we know we want it AGAIN.
This is the very thing that was kept religions going for ages. All religions have correctly said that they are a window into a larger Reality. This is true. The trouble starts when they claim that to be the ONLY window, or when they make negative inferences about OTHERS windows.
It is the promise of ecstasy, the promise of an experience of transcendence, that keeps religions going, even when the adherents no longer adhere to the tenets of their faith.
People NEED to be in touch with the Transcendent. It is as important as food, or dreaming, or bonding…
What happens when we DON’T have the experience of Transcendence? We commit suicide – in greater and greater numbers. Or, we try to sublimate the need for Transcendence via other experiences, like “extreme” sports and risky social activities.
If we call ecstatic/group/collective experience within a religious context “extraordinary ecstasy” or Transcendent ecstasy” what about “ordinary ecstasy”?
At the Changi Airport in Singapore, there is an orchid garden, with two full-time orchid gardeners. They have only one job – to tend to the orchids, to make the orchids happy and beautiful.
When I have time, I meditate in the orchid garden. I don’t meditate on the flowers. I meditate on the TENDERS. I look at their faces – the absolute focus they bring to each cut, each prune. For them, the thousands of travelers simply disappear. I disappear. Even the flowers disappear. The only thing that exists for them is this one ecstatic moment.
And… its their job. They do it every day. Its ordinary.
I can tell you about dozens, perhaps hundreds of such moments.
And, I can give you many, many more stories, of the opposite of ecstasy, the opposite of the ecstatic moment:
Consider the super hassled video store employee, who, no matter how busy, tired, irritated or overworked, says to each person who enters, “Hello, welcome to Blockbuster.” He doesn’t do this because he cares, nor because he gives a rip about whether you shop there – he only does it because some person in a corporate office created a mandate to “greet every customer”. His greeting is dead, and every time he says it, it sucks a little bit of the life out of him.
The most common antonym to “ecstasy” is “misery”. The video store employee was a miserable person, working in a miserable job…
Many of us understand ordinary ecstasy – when it happens on the individual level – orchid tenders and pizza throwers. People have shared with me stories about working in their garden, or watching a child play, or simply watching the flight of a butterfly. Moments of ordinary ecstasy..
True. However, the ecstatic moments I am referring to are BIGGER than the individual, the Solon. What about ordinary ecstasy in the whole, the aggregate? What about ordinary ecstasy as a Holon? How does that work – outside of the religious context?
It does work – and quite by accident, most of the time.
When I lived in Charlotte, NC, I was one of the hundreds attending the outdoor movies on the Art Museum lawn. Once, when the operator was changing reels, a huge meteor streaked across the sky. The hundreds of us, all at once, said, “Oooh!” And then fell silent.
It wasn’t just the beauty of seeing the meteor… it was all of us, having a shared experience of that beauty. A moment of ecstasy.
So, what are the elements of building a large-scale ecstatic moment? Here are a few:
Let me know if you think of others…